The Lower Resist curse lowers enemies elemental resistances which means fire, cold, lightning and poison. With the necro's bone spells being magic based Lower Resist can't boost their damage output.
A golem is practicaly a meat shield for a bonemancer so the clay golem seems best. Keep in mind that a strong golem requires hard points you may want more in your bone skills. A good way to get both is to set up your weapon slots accordingly: 1st weapon slot get's all +bone skill stuff and 2nd weapon slot get's all +summon/golem skill stuff.
As alternate for a golem you can also go as a pure bonemancer using bone wall+prison instead of the golem while a merc wields an Insight stick for your mana needs.
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Higher end hybrid builds can get golems (especially clay) that are very sturdy. The main summoner/bone build I use has a clay golem with about 14k life as a 1 point wonder. I think blood golem has about 7k. I use it more often any more.
Focusing more on bone would lower this to maybe 7-8k? Not quite as high as one may like, but still plenty good.
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